We believe marriage and family were designed by God and are foundational institutions for human flourishing, discipleship, and healthy churches.
Acts House is committed to strengthening the family unit because we believe healthy, Christ-centered households contribute to healthy, Christ-centered churches.
We therefore desire not merely to disciple individuals, but to strengthen marriages, equip men and women to fulfill their biblical responsibilities, support parents, disciple children, and build households centered upon Jesus Christ.
Marriage
We believe marriage was established by God as a covenant union between one man and one woman.
Marriage is intended to reflect the covenant relationship between Jesus Christ and His Church and should therefore be characterized by faithfulness, sacrificial love, purity, forgiveness, service, and lifelong commitment.
Scripture references: Genesis 2:18–24; Matthew 19:4–6; Ephesians 5:22–33; Hebrews 13:4
Biblical Headship and Order
We believe God has established an order within marriage in which Christ is the head of the husband and the husband is the head of his wife.
Husband and wife are equally created in God’s image, equally valuable before God, and equally recipients of His grace while being entrusted with distinct responsibilities within God’s design for marriage.
Biblical headship must never be confused with domination, selfishness, harshness, manipulation, or abuse.
Jesus Christ defines the pattern of Christian leadership.
Therefore, a husband’s leadership should resemble Christ’s relationship toward His Church: sacrificial, loving, servant-hearted, faithful, courageous, protective, and willing to lay himself down for those entrusted to his care.
Scripture references: 1 Corinthians 11:3; Ephesians 5:22–33; Colossians 3:18–19; 1 Peter 3:1–7
Men as Shepherds of Their Homes
Acts House believes God calls men to embrace the responsibility He has given them to lead and shepherd their households under the headship of Jesus Christ.
We desire to raise up men who do not retreat from spiritual responsibility but willingly take responsibility for the spiritual health, direction, protection, and discipleship of their families.
A husband and father is not called merely to provide materially for his household. He is called to shepherd it spiritually.
This means knowing the condition of those entrusted to his care, leading by example, teaching God’s Word, cultivating prayer and worship within the home, protecting his family, lovingly correcting and instructing his children, loving and honoring his wife, and continually pointing his household toward Jesus.
Scripture references: Deuteronomy 6:4–9; Joshua 24:15; Ephesians 5:25–29; 6:4; Colossians 3:19–21; 1 Timothy 3:4–5; 1 Peter 3:7
We believe biblical leadership begins with submission to Christ.
A man cannot faithfully lead his household while refusing to be led by Jesus.
Christ is the model for biblical headship. He did not use His authority for selfish gain but humbled Himself, served others, and laid down His life.
Therefore, leadership in the home should be characterized by humility, sacrifice, courage, gentleness, integrity, self-control, responsibility, service, and love.
Scripture references: Matthew 20:25–28; John 13:12–17; Philippians 2:3–8; Ephesians 5:25
Acts House therefore intentionally calls men to step into biblical manhood and spiritual leadership.
We call husbands to love and lead their wives faithfully.
We call fathers to disciple their children rather than outsourcing their children’s spiritual formation entirely to the church.
We call men to establish homes where God’s Word is taught, prayer is normal, repentance and forgiveness are practiced, hospitality is demonstrated, needs are met, and Jesus Christ is honored.
The man is not the center of the Christian household. Jesus Christ is.
The man’s responsibility is to faithfully shepherd those entrusted to him toward Christ.
Women and Biblical Womanhood
We believe wives are called to respect their husbands and willingly submit to their husbands’ biblical leadership as to the Lord.
Biblical submission never requires participation in sin and never gives a husband permission to control, mistreat, demean, or abuse his wife.
A godly woman is a vital builder of the household whose wisdom, character, spiritual gifts, service, discipleship, hospitality, motherhood, and ministry have tremendous value within the family and Church.
Scripture references: Proverbs 31:10–31; Ephesians 5:22–24, 33; Titus 2:3–5; 1 Peter 3:1–7
Parents and Children
We believe children are a blessing from the Lord and parents bear primary responsibility for their upbringing and discipleship.
Children are commanded to honor and obey their parents in the Lord.
Parents are called to love, teach, discipline, encourage, and disciple their children without provoking them to anger.
We believe spiritual formation should happen not only during church gatherings but throughout ordinary household life.
Parents should intentionally teach God’s Word and demonstrate what following Jesus looks like through their own lives.
Scripture references: Deuteronomy 6:4–9; Psalm 127:3–5; Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:1–4; Colossians 3:20–21
The Household and the Church
We believe Scripture connects faithfulness within one’s household with maturity and leadership within God’s household.
Therefore, Acts House seeks not merely to build strong individual Christians but strong marriages, godly men and women, faithful fathers and mothers, discipled children, and households centered upon Christ.
Strong families do not replace the Church; they strengthen the community from which the Church is built.
Scripture references: Joshua 24:15; Acts 2:46–47; 1 Timothy 3:4–5, 12; Titus 1:6; 2:1–8
Our desire is that households throughout Acts House can sincerely declare:
“As for me and my house, we will serve Yahweh.”
Sexual Holiness
We believe God created human sexuality and that sexual intimacy belongs within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman.
Followers of Jesus are therefore called to sexual purity and to flee sexual immorality.
At the same time, we believe every person must be treated with dignity, compassion, patience, and love. The Church must never compromise biblical truth, nor should biblical truth become an excuse for hatred or mistreatment.
We believe the gospel calls every person, regardless of their particular sins, temptations, or past, to repentance, forgiveness, transformation, and new life in Jesus Christ.
Scripture references: Matthew 5:27–30; 1 Corinthians 6:9–20; 7:2–5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3–8; Hebrews 13:4